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Support A Widow

A widow in Nigeria rarely loses only her husband. She loses the household's income, often the family land, and sometimes her children's place in school. Support A Widow puts money into her business, teaches her the skills that make it pay, and brings her online.

What's happening this December Support the work

A large group of widows and Support A Widow volunteers standing together at the end of a distribution day, packed boxes stacked beside them.
Widows and volunteers at the close of a distribution day.

What it does

Three strands, one aim: a household that can stand on its own.

Relief alone runs out. Each edition pairs something immediate with something that lasts, so a widow leaves with more than she arrived with.

Capital for her business

Direct grants into small businesses that already exist but have no working capital. In the fourth edition, 25 widows each received ₦100,000 with the support of MEBS Global.

Skills that sell

Hands-on training in trades a widow can start from home and run tomorrow: hairdressing, soap making and bleach production, taught alongside the costing and pricing that decide whether the trade turns a profit.

Digital awareness

Getting women who have never sold beyond their street onto a phone: mobile money, pricing a product for WhatsApp, and finding customers who were never going to walk past the shop.

In their own words

The needs they describe.

Filmed at their own stalls and shop fronts: widows talking about what they are carrying, what their businesses need, and what would actually change things.

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Coming this December · the fifth edition

This year we are going after the two things that break a widow's household: her health, and her children's schooling.

The fifth edition keeps the skills and digital training at its centre, and adds a programme built around the mother and the child together. A widow who is unwell cannot trade. A child sent home over fees rarely goes back.

01

Health empowerment for mothers

Each widow receives a critical health assessment, so that conditions which quietly take a woman out of work are found early rather than at a crisis. Thirty women are covered.

02

Educational sponsorship for children

School fees for one child per widow, in primary or secondary school, paid directly to the school so that learning is not interrupted by a shortfall at home. Thirty children are covered.

03

Back-to-school support kits

Books, materials and the everyday supplies a child needs to start the academic year on the same footing as the rest of the class, rather than borrowing their way through the first term.

What this edition is meant to achieve

  • Promote well-being. Health assessments for 30 widows, so that health is managed proactively rather than reactively.
  • Protect education. School fees for 30 children, so that no child's year is lost to a financial struggle at home.
  • Equip for the long run. Back-to-school kits, skills acquisition and digital training, so that the support still counts a year from now.

Dates and venue for the December edition are being confirmed. Ask to be told when they are set, or follow @beenetwork.

30
widows
Health assessments, so that illness is caught before it stops her trading.
30
children
School fees paid directly to the school, primary or secondary.
3
trades taught
Hairdressing, soap making and bleach production.

Over the years

What it has looked like.

Photographs from Support A Widow distribution days and the volunteer teams who run them.

Dozens of widows standing with Support A Widow volunteers, stacked boxes on the tables in front of them.
Everyone in one frame at the end of a distribution day.
A volunteer handing a large Season's Greetings box to a widow in a gold head wrap.
A hamper handed over, one household at a time.
A volunteer and a widow in a green dress holding a Season's Greetings Support a Widow box between them.
Each box is packed with food staples for the weeks after Christmas.
A widow and a volunteer holding a box marked Merry Christmas, Support a Widow Project.
The Christmas run, which has gone out every December since 2022.
Eight volunteers in Support A Widow T-shirts standing in a line.
The volunteers who pack, record and deliver.
The full Support A Widow volunteer team posed together in the event room before doors open.
The team, before the doors open.
Support A Widow volunteers laughing and waving at the camera at the end of the day.
And at the end of it.
Widows seated on plastic chairs in a hall, waiting for a Support A Widow distribution to begin.
Waiting for the doors to open on a Christmas distribution.
A volunteer passing a Merry Christmas box to a widow on the steps of the venue, stacked boxes beside them.
Boxes go out one at a time, name by name off the register.
A widow in a blue wrapper carrying her Merry Christmas box down the steps.
Each box carries food staples to see a household through the season.
A widow in a white jumper smiling broadly as she carries her box.
Collected, signed for, and on her way home.
An elderly widow and a young volunteer holding a box between them, both smiling.
Most of our volunteers are younger than the women they serve.
A widow in blue and gold holding her box, smiling at the camera.
Some of these women have come back every December since 2021.
A widow and a Bee Network volunteer embracing and laughing beside a stack of Season's Greetings boxes.
The part nobody plans for.
Widows and volunteers grouped on the steps of the venue, smiling, with Christmas boxes stacked at the side.
Everyone together before the boxes go home.

How it has grown

Editions so far.

It began as a Christmas appeal and became a year-round programme of grants and training.

  1. Support a Widow This Christmas campaign flyer, the first edition.
    December 2021

    Support A Widow 1.0

    Where it started: an appeal for food items and cash gifts, shared on 24 December 2021.

  2. Support a Widow this Christmas 2.0 campaign flyer.
    December 2022

    Support A Widow 2.0

    Packed food items, cash gifts and clothes, shared on 24 December 2022.

  3. Support A Widow 3.0 campaign flyer.
    December 2023

    Support A Widow 3.0

    A donation drive for food items, cash gifts and clothes, distributed on 23 December 2023.

  4. Support a Widow 4.0 campaign flyer, supported by MEBS Global.
    Fourth edition

    Support A Widow 4.0

    The turn from relief to enterprise: ₦100,000 each to 25 widows running small businesses in Nigeria, with the support of MEBS Global.

  5. December 2026

    Support A Widow 5.0

    Skills acquisition and digital awareness, health assessments for 30 widows, and school fees and back-to-school kits for 30 children.

    Read the plan

How to help

Three ways in.

Every edition has run on donated goods, donated money and donated Saturdays.

Give money

A cash gift goes to health assessments, school fees paid directly to the school, and training materials. Transfers go to the organisation's own account.

Account name
Be Empowered Network
Bank
UBA
Account number
1027748304

Please email hello@beempowerednetwork.org after you give, so we can thank you and send a record of where it went.

Give goods

Food items, clothing, school books and materials for the back-to-school kits. Tell us what you have and we will arrange collection or a drop-off point.

Offer a donation

Give a day

Volunteers pack boxes, keep the register, run the skills sessions and sit with the women through the health assessments. Trainers in hairdressing, soap making and bleach production are especially welcome.

Volunteer with us

“Grief is not a business plan. We give her the capital, the trade and the phone, and then we get out of her way.”

Support A Widow

Partner with the fifth edition.

Sponsor a widow's health assessment, a child's school fees, or a full skills cohort.